Good for you!  I'm glad you're not hanging around, waiting for someone to call!

Tell me about it!  I'm married though, so I suppose it really doesn't count. He's gone for a year though, so I indulge in a little girls night out every so often...and I feel positively ancient and altogether unattractive in bars and clubs. Have you thought about maybe enrolling in a class?  Yoga, art, a foreign language...or perhaps there's a gym or a 'Y' near where you live?

Just my .02 worth.

Sorry, no offense was intended with the 'watched pot' comment...and I must admit in my much younger days, I may have had some "sitting by the phone willing it to ring" experiences.

Anyway, I'm only mid-twenties--but there are times when I find the club scene depressing--those are the times that I'm actually "on the prowl" (for lack of a better phrase). When I go out to have a good time with friends and don't really care if I meet anyone--that is when they all come crawling out of the wood work.

Just a bit of trivia:  "everything comes back to you" is not from Karma, in the true sense, unless what you did was in your past life.  The true belief is that everything you do in this life will have an effect on your next life.  That is the sense of "I must have been really bad/good in my last life..." 

However, there is the Wiccan belief in the "law of three" which is what most people see as "Karma" now.  The basic principle is that any energy that you give out will come back.  Of course, the "three" comes back in the belief that it comes back threefold. 

A lot of the Earth religions start blurring at one point or another, though.