I just finished your other article "Wiggle Your Toes, damnit!"

I'm sorry you're having such a bad time of things. It sucks that you have to.

If you can stand it: Don't sit around by the phone waiting. You put your life on hold when you do that. Get out of the house. Go do something. Go to a movie if you can. Go window shopping. Go spending shopping. Volunteer (yeah, yeah, Dear Abby stuff, but still).

You sound like an interesting person, so don't give up hope or anything. You do have your own life to live. Enjoy it by yourself for awhile.

Hahahaha....

you only have all the girls who give out fake phone numbers and aren't respnsive if you call straight away...

Chicks are the only one to blame for chicks problems when it comes to the dating game...

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you only have all the girls who give out fake phone numbers and aren't respnsive if you call straight away... Chicks are the only one to blame for chicks problems when it comes to the dating game...

oh, Muggaz--please tell me you don't play games...they are just so pointless...either you're interested or you're not...argh.

But I do agree with werewolf--there's no point sitting around waiting for someone to call...a watched phone doesn't ring (hmm...that might be a watched pot never boils...but you get the drift)...If he calls, he calls...if not, you didn't need him anyway.

Shades, Like I have said before, dont hate the player, hate the game.

I regretably, well not so much regretably inform you, that I do play games, because its the only way to get a chick attracted to you... Chicks are the ultimate sub-concious players of the game...

As soon as a guy tells you he likes you, it's like you switch of... This is no fault of your own, its just your crap genetic makeup.. thats all...

This isn't true in every case, however, it's a general rule I live by.

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Muggaz, sweetie...I think that you are tarring all of us chickies with the same brush and that's not entirely fair.  The girlies YOU associate with might "switch of" but liberated, confident, beautiful women such as Shades and myself don't play silly games like that.

Playing games will attract a certain type of girl (please not I said 'girl' not 'woman')..as I think you already know.

Muggaz, sweetie...I think that you are tarring all of us chickies with the same brush and that's not entirely fair. The girlies YOU associate with might "switch of" but liberated, confident, beautiful women such as Shades and myself don't play silly games like that.

This isn't true in every case, however, it's a general rule I live by.

duh!

Girls I assosciate with tend to be my own age... and yes, a majority of 18 - 22 year old females play the 'game' So i have merely adapted to my environment... Don't you think I wish chicks my age weren't stupid? Unfortunately they aren't as confident and liberated as ladies such as you and shades, simply because they haven't seen the light yet...

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yea, what dharma said!

hmm...i'm pretty sure that if i hate the game, i'm not too fond of the games players

Seriously though...I'll give you the fact that many people play games...I just am of the opinoin that the games not worth playing and anyone playing the game is not worth my time.

- unfortunately this little black duck has a a few desires that require playing the game...

I am positive we both share the same outlook on the game... however, I refuse to have my sex life ruined by manipulative little tarts! So i must become manipulative myself!

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sorry for hijacking your thread wiggleyertoes you can delete my non-sensical jib-jab if you so please

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hey, its cool....I got some insight into the male psyche...for whatever that's worth!